Instinct Magazine’s Leading Men Of 2009 party takes place in NYC on November 19th at Greenhouse in Soho. Famed DJ Bill Coleman and gay pop artist Ari Gold will perform. RSVP for admittance here. This year’s “leading men” include Lt. Dan Choi, Lt. Col. Victor Fehrenbach, activist Rob Tisinai, Levi’s head Robert Hanson, activist Wayne Besen, Californians Against Hate’s Fred Karger, and Cleve Jones. (And me.) I don’t know if any of those guys will attend, but I’ll be there. An extended version of the print interview with me is now online. I hope I don’t sound like too much of a tool.