HomoQuotable – Dan Savage

“Damned if they do, damned if they don’t—we’ve heard this song before. The queers complaining about Macklemore & Ryan Lewis now remind me of the queers who used to bitch and bitch and bitch about how big beer companies didn’t advertise in queer publications or sponsor pride parades. (‘Queer people drink a lot of beer! They want us to support them and buy their beer but they don’t want to support us and our community!’) But when big beer companies began advertising in queer publications and sponsoring pride parades… the exact same queers who had been complaining about how big beer companies weren’t advertising in queer publications or sponsoring pride parades immediately started bitching about how the beer companies were trying to profit off our sexuality. (‘The pride parade is not for sale! We are a community, not a commodity!’) Blah blah bitchy blah. [SNIP] Attacking people who are on our side and having a huge impact
isn’t going to get us to equality any faster. And if sane queers say
nothing when our ‘imperfect allies’ are swarmed by ingrates and
idiots—and no one is perfect, ally or otherwise—then we’re pretty
quickly going to run out of allies.” – Dan Savage, writing for the Stranger. Hit the link and watch the related video Dan posted.